Sometimes I am wondering if I am the only one who understands me...!! Maybe I can get some insight from the masses out there...here's the scenario:
My husband wanted me to go watch him play football. It was a damp, chilly evening, I had no notice, it's a school night, and I have 5 kids to "entertain"...one being a 2 year old (and we all know how WONDERFUL he is) and another being nearly a newborn...he didn't understand why I thought staying home and getting them to bed sounded like the more enjoyable option..."Just come watch, and let them play" was his attitude...
(Go Husband...this is FUN!!! YAY...!!!)
In my head I am thinking, okay, I JUST found out about this, and I need to bundle up 5 kids, load up the stroller, chairs, drive 40 minutes both ways, and then figure out how to be everywhere at once. If Romy gets hungry, and Blazer runs off, how is that going to work...?? I could just picture myself running into the field nursing Romy in one arm and dragging a crazy two-year-old off with the other and just hoping we don't get tackled...! I think that might fall under "public indecency" (or would that be "public nudity"?? Not real sure there...hmmm...maybe I could just wear a snuggie...) Then what if one of the kids has to go to the bathroom?? Then someone trips in the mud and is whining because they are soggy and cold...by the time I get home, it is an hour and a half past bedtime, kids still need to shower, eat snacks, brush teeth and finally go to bed....
and I am pooped...
exhausted...
done for....
Am I being pessimistic??
I thought I was being realistic...weighing the options...
My husband thinks I am being negative...that I am ruining the experience before even trying it...I should just come and enjoy the game...
I am not sure why I couldn't see it that way and I was frustrated that he didn't understand...
What about you??
I don't like to look at myself as a negative person...but maybe I am not seeing what others see...maybe I am over thinking what 5 kids at a football game would be like...would they have really "just played?" I would have loved to go and watch him play...and I hope to be able to at some point...but hopfully not with the kids...at least...not all of them...
P.S. (Added Later) Just to clarify this post...I don't want anyone to think that my husband sucks...cause he surely does not!! This post to me is the difference between Men and Women....Dads vs Moms...Dads: Just pick up and go, we'll figure it out...it will be fun!! Moms: Thinking of every little detail, needs to know how it COULD play out, every little what if or what not....that night...I weighed my options, and felt like it was WAY too much of a hassle...so I bagged the idea. He didn't quite understand, but that doesn't make him a bad guy at all...!!